Tips for a healthier heart:

1.) Don't trust too easily, let your heart be independent.
2.) Don't fall for sweet words, every word must be proven true with an action.
3.) Don't let them have you easily, if they really do love you, they'll wait.
4.) Try and avoid relationships until you finish studying or until you proved that you can balance your time between love and academics, but until then enjoy single life with your friends.
5.) Don't get too attached.
6.) Don't ever expect.
7.) Never chase a guy, he must be the one that keeps up with you, if he doesn't walk away.
8.) "I love you" is a sacred statement so don't just say it out of a habit, be sure you really feel the love before you admit it.
9.) Don't look for mr. Right, instead be the ms. Right and let the perfect guy find you.
10.) It's okay to cry and feel sad of a broken heart but darling, remember your worth. You deserve the very best and you absolutely deserve someone that stays by your side and never makes you feel unwanted.
11.) Trust your instincts, if you feel like it's not gonna work, leave before it's too late.
12.) When someone says I love you, always ask why.
13.) Do not change yourself for someone, if he really loves you, he'll still see you as beautiful beyond your flaws.
14.) Let your heart lead the way but never forget to take your brain with you.
15.) Just love and be loved in return and if it doesn't work out, don't ever lose hope cause you never know maybe it's just the right love at a wrong time or the person destined to be with you hasn't taken their part in your life yet.

p.s.
always remember to take good care of your heart, it's your greatest posession. :)

February 27, 2014; Tearsday

They say that love never fails, but it's not true.At some point it will fail even in the smallest possible way. It will disappoint you and it will make you decide whether to give up or not. But by the definition of fidelity, you should never leave someone because you're disappointed. Yet how could you hold on to something that's fading? Maybe you just need to realize that some things are not worth fighting for. It's a hard thing to do but maybe you should let go of what you think was real.

Sisters by heart

Don’t you just realize how ironic love is? It keeps us inspired, at the same time distracted. It gives us contentment yet we never stop searching for something more. It sometimes makes us guilty but it also gives us pleasures. And of course, it gives us happiness but it also cause our heartache.

I am the kind of girl, who still believes in fairytales and happy endings. I never stop hoping that one day, my prince charming will come along and sweep me off my feet. Who knows what’ll happen right? Maybe I’ll meet him one of these days or maybe I already met him.

So let me tell you a story about four friends and their journey with their love life.

There were four friends who never thought they’d be this close. They were never best friends in the past but as time passes by fate continued to pull them closer hence, having a kind of friendship they have now. They each described themselves as sisters by heart, inseparable. They always got each other’s back and they never leave one another. For their privacy, let’s just hide them in the names Tina, Ariel, Katy and Shamcey. Each girl is beautiful and unique. Tina was the athletic type, Ariel was the talkative type, Katy was the artistic one and Shamcey was the talented one. Let us all recall the ups and downs they faced with their LL or love life.

Tina

Tina was just an average girl, never expecting to be in a relationship with a handsome young lad named John. John was considered the “girl magnet” or the kind of guy the girls are longing for. So Tina never expected that she would be the one who’ll lock this playboy’s heart. Their love story started with a simple daring game. John, dared her to act like lovers for a week. Tina didn’t care at first because it was just a game for fun, she said yes. They acted like lovers until the week was finally over. Their dare was finally off. But after a few days, Tina was surprised that John confessed his love for her. John explained that he truly did fell in love with her. Tina, gave John the chance to prove that he really did love her and he didn’t fail. Tina and John are still standing strong together until now.

Ariel

Ariel was considered to be “one of the boys” kind of girl. She’s not the lesbo type, she just knows how to hang with guys without giving any relationship to the guys she hangs with. She’s a fun and outgoing girl and she always make the people around her, laugh. She’s never the type of girl who likes to be involved in relationships because she believes she just wants to have fun and be free. But even though she’s not involved in any relationship, a guy was still able to make her heart beat. This guy’s name is Phil. 3 years ago, Ariel would’ve never thought that this handsome boy would confess his love to her. Phil was able to capture Ariel’s heart and they were together but sadly, not for long. There were obstacles faced in their relationship which caused the weakening and breaking of their love. But even though they separated, Ariel still has a spot for Phil in her heart up until now. She never knows if they’ll have a second chance again. Maybe they do maybe they don’t. Ariel just believes that whatever happens, happens.

Katy

A quiet and a girl who could never stay mad is the best way Katy is defined. 6 years ago, a boy named Tucker was in awe of Katy’s gracefulness and beauty. He had a crush on her the very first time he saw her. A year has passed and Katy got to know Tucker a little better. She too had developed a crush on him. And of course, as soon as each side’s friends knew what they truly felt, they could never stop teasing them together. This was the reason why, Tucker never spoke to Katy again because he was too shy and ashamed of all the people teasing. More years have passed and their feelings towards each other grew stronger. That little crush has evolved into this crazy little thing called love. But because of Tucker’s shyness, they never got to confess their feelings with each other. Katy has lost her hope with Tucker and decided she should move on. That’s when she met Xander and had an affair with him. Katy loved Xander but with their times together, she still could never erase Tucker from her heart. And Tucker who never loved another girl besides Katy was still hoping that their love will have a chance. When Xander and Katy broke up, Tucker finally manned up and confessed her love to Katy. They both gave each other a chance to get to know each other and finally after 6 years, they are both together, strong and in love.

Shamcey

A girl with a contagious smile is best described to Shamcey. She kept people smiling with her bubbly personality and charming smile. Shamcey has gone with a lot of lose flicks in her life but only one guy captured every piece of her fragile heart. A boy named Karl came into her life. He was the boy who she just passed and didn’t notice when they were in the same place. She never thought that this guy she never noticed the first time is the guy that would change her life forever. She just came in surprised one day when he told her he always wanted to get to know Shamcey better. At first she thought it was all a joke but Karl wanted to prove her wrong. So she gave him a chance until she finally felt her heart beat for him. He wasn’t the perfect kind of lover but Shamcey still loved him. He might have caused some pain and heartache to her but Shamcey was patient and never gave up on him. For Shamcey, she never would’ve thought she’d have so much patience with him. She just felt like every time they got to talk or meet, all her heartaches with him were erased. Shamcey might not have the most romantic love story but for her it is perfect. And up until now, they stand strong and in love and they never have plans on giving up  on each other.

They are four friends with four different perspective of love, four friends who never forgot each other despite the new people that came into their lives. They might not have a Cinderella like love story with their love life but they supported each other and stood at each other’s backs when they’re in need. Maybe the best love story that happened to the four of them is not meeting their prince charming, but getting into each others’ lives. The best love that happened to them is the love that has bloomed between the four of them.

And so their journey continues. They won’t be sure who they’ll end up with at the end but they’re sure that even if John, Phil, Tucker or Karl won’t be with them, they’ll still have each other. The four of them together, forever. 

Melancholic Heart

I miss the person, who used to tell me I’m beautiful

I miss the person, who tells me he loves me when I’m doubtful

I miss the person who came into my life and surprised me

I miss the person who used to make me happy

What happened? Did I do something wrong?

What caused the weakening of the love that used to be so strong?

Did you even love me from the start?

Or you just came to play with my heart?

To infinity and beyond, remember?

You were even the one who said this love will last forever

But as I can see this love is about to break

Causing me pain and my heart to ache

All I’m asking for is to be loved and to feel important

Even if I’m a mess and all your wishes I cannot grant

Because I promise you that I’ll always love you day by day

And to let you know that I’m always here to stay

I miss how things with us are used to be

Can’t we just go back and be happy?

I miss the person who let me fall

But is the one who hurt me after all

Her side of the story

That girl who walks in the aisle

That girl who has a broken smile

That girl you’ve hurt and mocked

Is the girl who never talked.

All you did was judge her

Without even knowing her side

Now all your hatred she must conquer

With all the pain she’s trying to hide

You notice her for her mistakes

But never for the things she did right

Yet she never uttered a word

Or made a scandalous fight

She remained silent

Even though she was broken

She never wanted to be violent

Even if her confidence was taken

Now a question I will ask

Are you happy with your task?

Indeed she might hurt some of you

But was it something she intended to do?

All she does is frown

She’s grown too weak

Could you stop putting her down?

Could you hear her speak?

Listen to her words before you judge her

Understand her instead of hate

Don’t let her believe that it’s over

No one left to listen and wait

Put yourself in her place

And maybe then you’ll understand

How hard it is to face

"A world without a helping hand"

The Fidelity of Life

"The truth is, everyone's gonna hurt you. You just have to find the ones worth the pain."

In life, you can never escape the stage of hurting. It is usually caused by over thinking,  insecurities, misunderstandings, depressions and many more. Especially if you're in a relationship. Once you've taken the vow to love your partner, you got this responsibility that you must accomplish. But sometimes, we fail to accomplish these tasks hence the result of broken relationships. But to all the couples out there, you're not gonna promise to each other that you will not disappoint one another because at some point you will. What's important is that you love each other and you won't go away, you won't escape, you won't leave one another just because you we're disappointed.

"That's the meaning of fidelity."

Moving On :)

Most of us can't help but feel this crazy little thing called Love. It can't be helped I guess. That feeling just comes around usually at the most unexpected time.

But sometimes, people don't get their so called happy endings. All I can say is, if it's not happy, then it's not yet the end. But of course we can't help but feel sad if a relationship doesn't work out. We usually get heart broken and depressed during these times. People around you might tell you to move on but of course moving on is not as easy as saying it. Sometimes we have to find ways or alternatives to forget about that person.

Today, I will share to you my own ways of moving on. I can't say that it's a hundred percent effective but my sources say that it helps.

1. Avoid listening to mellow love songs

Listening to mellow love songs will make you remember about him/her. You'll realize that the lyrics will pretty much fit your love story and you'll emote once more. Try listening to happy and energetic songs. You can also dance to it to laugh yourself out.

2. Don't text him/her first

If you keep texting him or her, the more you'll hope that he or she will respond. And of course if he or she doesn't respond, you'll be depressed once more. 

3. Spend more time with friends

Spending more time with friends will keep your mind off that person. You're friends will also make you realize that there's more to life than him or her.

4. Read Books 

Reading books will make you forget about your life problems. After all, books don't offer escape bu it can stop your mind from scratching itself raw. You'll also fall for fictional characters and you'll forget about that certain person.

5. Go shopping or pamper yourself

Go and have your "me" time. Relax, buy yourself things that makes you happy even for just a while. You'll be able to forget about that person even if it's only in a limited time.

6. Work out

Some people might say that they'd just rather eat than love. But for me I'd rather work out than eat a lot. It will benefit you because it will set your mind on other things, make you fit and healthy. If you eat a lot you'll be fat resulting to lesser confidence. Of course you're more confident if you're fit right?

7.) SMILE :)

There's really no point in frowning all the time. You're frown will not change your situation plus you'll age faster. But when you smile people around you will smile too and you'll be glowing. 

So really, there's no point of staying in bed crying and cursing about your unsuccessful love life. Go out! Find yourself and make your situation a lesson for you in the future. :)